Feb 233 minI Changed My Mind About MonogamyThose who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. – George Bernard Shaw Changes happen all the time. The nature of life is flui...
Feb 95 minSelf Love: The Biggest Lesson From My Open Marriage“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every relationship you have.” — Robert Holden When my husband and I decided to open ou...
Aug 1, 20193 minWhat Makes A Relationship Successful?My dad has a theory that a relationship can only be successful when these four elements are present
Mar 26, 20194 minTo Date Or Not To Date, That Is The Question: The “No Dating Friends” Rule in PolyamoryThe topic of dating friends has come up quite a bit for me recently. In fact, it surfaced multiple times just in the last week in convers...
Mar 20, 20193 min5 Ways Open Marriage Has Positively Affected Our ChildrenWhen my husband and I decided to open up our marriage our kids were about 4 and 6 years old. I was worried about how our lifestyle would ...
Jan 15, 20194 minHow I Helped My Husband Set Up His Online Dating Profile on OKCupid.comIt took me close to a year to decide to try online dating after we opened up our marriage. It took my husband six months longer... not wi...
Dec 19, 20185 minWe have a choice: monogamy is not the only option...A story about how I stopped following societal norms While growing up, I was constantly reminded of what an ideal relationship should ...
Nov 9, 20184 minLet's talk about balance in (polyamorous) relationshipsWhen we decided to open our marriage my husband started dating someone almost right away. For a while I had a crush on a guy that I could...
Oct 24, 20183 minMissing the butterflies: or how we opened up our marriageIt was our 8th marriage anniversary. We left the kids with the babysitter and went out for dinner at a nice restaurant on University - a ...