After a few post-date withdrawals, I developed some tactics for working through the onslaught of difficult feelings.

In her research article, Anne-Laure Le Cunff defines veto as an agreement in polyamorous relationships that gives one person the power to end their partner’s...

A few months after my husband and I opened our marriage I fell for a guy (let’s call him S) who told me that he was polyamorous, and that it was just a matte...

Something interesting happened to me recently… I fell in love with my body. When I was growing up I was an awkward, lanky preteen with bony knees. I felt lik...

My dad has a theory that a relationship can only be successful when these four elements are present

Many poly bloggers, myself included, have attempted to explain what polyamory really is. But many people still don't get what it's not.

The topic of dating friends has come up quite a bit for me recently. In fact, it surfaced multiple times just in the last week in conversations with friends ...

When my husband and I decided to open up our marriage our kids were about 4 and 6 years old. I was worried about how our lifestyle would affect them, to say ...

Last Tuesday night was officially the funnest night of 2019! I went to see the Thunder From Down Under show with my partner's other female friends. It was an...

Lately I’ve been crossing paths with quite a few polyamorous people as more and more friends have been coming out as poly and introducing me to their poly ci...

...A story about how I stopped following societal norms While growing up, I was constantly reminded of what an ideal relationship should be like: a man and a...

According to WIkipedia, attachment theory was primarily studied in the context of children and parents in the 1960s and 1970s. In the late 80s it was extende...

There is a great side-benefit to having multiple romantic partners: you might make new friends with your partners' other partners (also called "metamours"). ...

When we decided to open our marriage my husband started dating someone almost right away. For a while I had a crush on a guy that I couldn't date, so I didn'...

There were a few moments in the past few months when I have felt judged by people who found out I was polyamorous. It felt strangely familiar – like the expe...

There is a lot written about rules and boundaries in polyamory and open relationships. Some authors strongly recommend having relationship rules in place, ot...

According to Wikipedia, polyamory is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the consent of all partners invo...

In the past year I made an interesting discovery: jealousy isn't a real feeling. Jealousy is an emotional flag that points to an underlying feeling that shou...

It was our 8th marriage anniversary. We left the kids with the babysitter and went out for dinner at a nice restaurant on University - a cute street in downt...