In Sickness And In Health
Every morning I do these four actions on my phone: check for any missed messages and calls, play today’s Wordle, look at my calendar to...
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REDEFINING LOVE
My thoughts on non-monogamy,
polyamory, and open marriage
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- Nov 3, 2022
- 3 min
How I Met My Partner's Wife
“Clara asked if you’d be up to meet with her,” Daniel said one day. Daniel was my partner, and Clara was his wife. Ummm. What? I had a...
- Oct 31, 2022
- 4 min
A Practical Guide to Emotional Safety
Emotional safety is about being authentic and sharing thoughts and feelings with another person without any fear. Frequent criticism and...
- Oct 19, 2022
- 10 min
How I Got Triggered After A Consensual Touch Workshop
Last weekend my husband and I went to a wellness retreat in the mountains. As part of it, we participated in a consensual touch workshop.
- Feb 23, 2021
- 3 min
I Changed My Mind About Monogamy
Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. – George Bernard Shaw Changes happen all the time. The nature of life is...
- Feb 8, 2021
- 5 min
Self Love: The Biggest Lesson From My Open Marriage
“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every relationship you have.” — Robert Holden When my husband and I decided to open...
- Apr 27, 2020
- 5 min
Separation Anxiety In The Age Of Coronavirus
After a few post-date withdrawals, I developed some tactics for working through the onslaught of difficult feelings.
- Oct 30, 2019
- 4 min
Is Veto Ever The Right Choice?
In her research article, Anne-Laure Le Cunff defines veto as an agreement in polyamorous relationships that gives one person the power to...
- Sep 6, 2019
- 4 min
How I Fell In Love With My Body
Something interesting happened to me recently… I fell in love with my body. When I was growing up I was an awkward, lanky preteen with...
- Aug 1, 2019
- 3 min
What Makes A Relationship Successful?
My dad has a theory that a relationship can only be successful when these four elements are present
- May 21, 2019
- 3 min
What Polyamory Is NOT
Many poly bloggers, myself included, have attempted to explain what polyamory really is. But many people still don't get what it's not.
- Mar 26, 2019
- 4 min
To Date Or Not To Date, That Is The Question: The “No Dating Friends” Rule in Polyamory
The topic of dating friends has come up quite a bit for me recently. In fact, it surfaced multiple times just in the last week in...
- Mar 20, 2019
- 3 min
5 Ways Open Marriage Has Positively Affected Our Children
When my husband and I decided to open up our marriage our kids were about 4 and 6 years old. I was worried about how our lifestyle would...
- Feb 8, 2019
- 3 min
A Night to Remember: #ThunderFromDownUnder With My Partner's Other Partners
Last Tuesday night was officially the funnest night of 2019! I went to see the Thunder From Down Under show with my partner's other...
- Jan 7, 2019
- 3 min
Are there personality traits that are more common among people in polyamorous relationships?
Lately I’ve been crossing paths with quite a few polyamorous people as more and more friends have been coming out as poly and introducing...
- Dec 18, 2018
- 5 min
We have a choice: monogamy is not the only option
...A story about how I stopped following societal norms While growing up, I was constantly reminded of what an ideal relationship should...
- Dec 12, 2018
- 3 min
Is it possible to be polyamorous and have an anxious attachment style?
According to WIkipedia, attachment theory was primarily studied in the context of children and parents in the 1960s and 1970s. In the...
- Nov 25, 2018
- 2 min
Your Partner's Other Partner: Friend or Foe?
There is a great side-benefit to having multiple romantic partners: you might make new friends with your partners' other partners (also...
- Nov 9, 2018
- 4 min
Let's talk about balance in (polyamorous) relationships
When we decided to open our marriage my husband started dating someone almost right away. For a while I had a crush on a guy that I...
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Polyamory (Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", Latin amor, "love") is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the consent of all partners involved.
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