I Thought Polyamory Would Fix My Marriage
“Okay. Let’s start dating other people”, my husband said after we finished appetizers. I met my husband, Jay, in front of a nightclub in...
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REDEFINING LOVE
My thoughts on non-monogamy,
polyamory, and open marriage
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- Mar 9, 2021
- 4 min
Ten Questions To Ask Your Partner Every Three Months
I had an epiphany the other night: we focus on succeeding at our careers a lot more than we focus on succeeding at our relationships....
- Feb 23, 2021
- 3 min
I Changed My Mind About Monogamy
Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. – George Bernard Shaw Changes happen all the time. The nature of life is...
- Feb 8, 2021
- 5 min
Self Love: The Biggest Lesson From My Open Marriage
“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every relationship you have.” — Robert Holden When my husband and I decided to open...
- Jan 22, 2021
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How I Told My Mom About My Open Marriage
Last year at my virtual birthday party my mom raised a glass and said “There is absolutely nothing I could wish my daughter on her...
- Nov 18, 2020
- 4 min
My Journey To Polyamory… And Back
There are two main reasons why people in monogamous relationships decide they are polyamorous: Some critical component is missing in...
- Aug 1, 2020
- 3 min
What It Takes For A Non-Monogamous Relationship To Survive
Since my husband and I decided to open our marriage, I’ve been paying extra close attention to the progression of relationships of our...
- Apr 27, 2020
- 5 min
Separation Anxiety In The Age Of Coronavirus
After a few post-date withdrawals, I developed some tactics for working through the onslaught of difficult feelings.
- Feb 29, 2020
- 3 min
Grandma's Wisdom: Date Other People, It's Good For Your Marriage
We were having dinner at my parents house when my husband asked my grandma how she felt about grandpa's thirst for adventure and constant...
- Dec 17, 2019
- 4 min
Why I Have To Hide From The World That I Am Polyamorous
I have to hide this huge most loving part of me from most of the world, because seeing it as it is would make most of the world...
- Oct 30, 2019
- 4 min
Is Veto Ever The Right Choice?
In her research article, Anne-Laure Le Cunff defines veto as an agreement in polyamorous relationships that gives one person the power to...
- Sep 6, 2019
- 4 min
How I Fell In Love With My Body
Something interesting happened to me recently… I fell in love with my body. When I was growing up I was an awkward, lanky preteen with...
- Aug 1, 2019
- 3 min
What Makes A Relationship Successful?
My dad has a theory that a relationship can only be successful when these four elements are present
- Jun 2, 2019
- 5 min
What It's Like To Be A Poly Introvert
I have a confession to make: I am an introvert. Vocabulary.com defines an introvert as someone who prefers solitary activities and who...
- May 21, 2019
- 3 min
What Polyamory Is NOT
Many poly bloggers, myself included, have attempted to explain what polyamory really is. But many people still don't get what it's not.
- May 7, 2019
- 5 min
How I Learned To Love Myself Through Opening To Loving Many
There was no concept of self-love where I grew up. Forget self-love, feelings just wasn't something people talked about. I don't remember...
- Mar 26, 2019
- 4 min
To Date Or Not To Date, That Is The Question: The “No Dating Friends” Rule in Polyamory
The topic of dating friends has come up quite a bit for me recently. In fact, it surfaced multiple times just in the last week in...
- Mar 20, 2019
- 3 min
5 Ways Open Marriage Has Positively Affected Our Children
When my husband and I decided to open up our marriage our kids were about 4 and 6 years old. I was worried about how our lifestyle would...
- Feb 8, 2019
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A Night to Remember: #ThunderFromDownUnder With My Partner's Other Partners
Last Tuesday night was officially the funnest night of 2019! I went to see the Thunder From Down Under show with my partner's other...
- Jan 15, 2019
- 4 min
How I Helped My Husband Set Up His Online Dating Profile on OKCupid.com
It took me close to a year to decide to try online dating after we opened up our marriage. It took my husband six months longer... not...
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Polyamory (Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", Latin amor, "love") is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the consent of all partners involved.
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