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REDEFINING LOVE
My thoughts on non-monogamy,
polyamory, and open marriage
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How I Helped My Husband Set Up His Online Dating Profile on OKCupid.com
It took me close to a year to decide to try online dating after we opened up our marriage. It took my husband six months longer... not...
Jan 15, 20194 min read
Are there personality traits that are more common among people in polyamorous relationships?
Lately I’ve been crossing paths with quite a few polyamorous people as more and more friends have been coming out as poly and introducing...
Jan 7, 20193 min read
We have a choice: monogamy is not the only option
...A story about how I stopped following societal norms While growing up, I was constantly reminded of what an ideal relationship should...
Dec 18, 20185 min read
Is it possible to be polyamorous and have an anxious attachment style?
According to WIkipedia, attachment theory was primarily studied in the context of children and parents in the 1960s and 1970s. In the...
Dec 12, 20183 min read
Your Partner's Other Partner: Friend or Foe?
There is a great side-benefit to having multiple romantic partners: you might make new friends with your partners' other partners (also...
Nov 25, 20182 min read
Let's talk about balance in (polyamorous) relationships
When we decided to open our marriage my husband started dating someone almost right away. For a while I had a crush on a guy that I...
Nov 9, 20184 min read
"Aren't you just a glorified cheater?" and other reactions to polyamory
There were a few moments in the past few months when I have felt judged by people who found out I was polyamorous. It felt strangely...
Nov 6, 20183 min read
Rules, agreements, and boundaries in polyamorous relationships
There is a lot written about rules and boundaries in polyamory and open relationships. Some authors strongly recommend having...
Oct 30, 20183 min read
What is polyamory?
According to Wikipedia, polyamory is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the consent...
Oct 28, 20183 min read
Is jealousy a real feeling?
In the past year I made an interesting discovery: jealousy isn't a real feeling. Jealousy is an emotional flag that points to an...
Oct 25, 20183 min read
Missing the butterflies: or how we opened up our marriage
It was our 8th marriage anniversary. We left the kids with the babysitter and went out for dinner at a nice restaurant on University - a...
Oct 23, 20183 min read
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Polyamory (Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", Latin amor, "love") is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the consent of all partners involved.
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