My thoughts on non-monogamy,

polyamory, and open marriage


Why Polyamory Didn’t Work For Me

I thought I was polyamorous, but it turns I am monogamish. Both are types of open relationships, both have some degree of involvement...

Finding Freedom In Authenticity

I had quite an interesting conversation with my ten-year-old friend Emilia the other day. She told me how her best friend Leslie upset...

I Changed My Mind About Monogamy

Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. – George Bernard Shaw Changes happen all the time. The nature of life is...

My Journey To Polyamory… And Back

There are two main reasons why people in monogamous relationships decide they are polyamorous: Some critical component is missing in...

Is Veto Ever The Right Choice?

In her research article, Anne-Laure Le Cunff defines veto as an agreement in polyamorous relationships that gives one person the power to...

How I Fell In Love With My Body

Something interesting happened to me recently… I fell in love with my body. When I was growing up I was an awkward, lanky preteen with...

What Polyamory Is NOT

Many poly bloggers, myself included, have attempted to explain what polyamory really is. But many people still don't get what it's not.


Polyamory (Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", Latin amor, "love") is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the consent of all partners involved.